As a kid Amber remembers getting sunburns on her nose and freckles on her fair skin — every single summer.
There wasn’t an afternoon at the pool that didn’t have her back at home with her sisters, fascinated at how sheets of skin could peel of like that.
“Your skin is tight and hurts and it’s painful, but you don’t really think that you’ve done some lasting damage when you’re a kid,” she said. “I wasn’t always careful, I didn’t always wear sunscreen, and I didn’t wear hats. I didn’t think about the shade. All these things that now you understand are more impacting and you have to pay more attention to.”
While lying on a beach a couple years ago on vacation, Amber’s husband noticed a weird shaped mole on her back. He told her to get it checked out.
“It wasn’t raised, but it was sort of in the shape of a country, and they say you should pay attention to the borders,” she said. “I couldn’t see it, and it wasn’t bothering me, so I just let it go for a couple of years. But then last summer, my husband brought it up again.”
The mole had gotten bigger and another mole had formed next to it. Her husband insisted she get it checked out.
“I decided he was right, better safe than sorry,” she said, and immediately made an appointment to get her moles checked.
When you get your moles checked, you wear a gown and they look at all of your skin to see if you have any concerning marks or moles. They check everywhere, even places you wouldn’t expect to be problematic, and they look for warning signs in:
- rough borders
- changes in the mole
- inconsistent color
“If it looks weird or out of place or if it’s growing or getting darker, it’s something to pay attention to,” Amber said. “My husband even took pictures of my mole so we could track any changes over time.” Her doctor decided to remove the mole on her back and another under her arm as a precaution.
Skin cancer is the number one killer of women, claiming more lives than breast cancer at this point.
“It’s a pretty eye opening thing that we really have to pay attention to,” Amber said. “The way you can do that is by taking as many precautionary measures as you can, like sunscreen and shade and wearing hats and sunglasses. And also by paying attention to your skin and the messages that you body is trying to give to you. It’ll literally put up a red flag in the form of a strange mole, but you have to pay attention to it.”
Learn how to examine your skin for melanoma from experts at the National Cancer Institute here.
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